Husband wants to have threesome

He asked if he could help pick her out, and I said sure. When I confessed, he was crushed, more because I had lied to him than because I had slept with her. Fewer copious-amounts-of-alcohol-enabled bisexual experiences in the short run, with less money going to booze and more going to therapy, may lead to more—and happier, and easier-to-recall—bisexual experiences in the long run. But it mattered to your GGG wife. We have been together more than 29 years. I cried and cried, wondering if I had destroyed my marriage, if he would leave me, but also wondering if I would ever be happy, ever be sexually satisfied, ever find a way to make this work. Do they fancy the new person more than you?

I am not sure how to begin to help you unwind this tangle through this forum. Before we tried out this open marriage thing, I definitely wondered about the quality of the grass in other lawns. By Edward McClelland No job, no job skills, youngest is only in preschool part time. In bed, I play an active role in getting what I want. Order by newest oldest recommendations. The three of us had sex.

Regarding press releases please contact the News Room. I am no expert, so please do not take this as expert advice, but you guys should consider seeing a therapist. If this is something you do not want to do, then do NOT do this. Another person told me she thinks I'm a lesbian who doesn't want to give up the creature comforts my marriage provides. Sometimes, however, it's hard to read whether he really wants that answer, and I feel sad when I get it wrong. I decided I would do something drastic to spice up our love life.

In your case, acting out a threesome fantasy is highly risky. And I can't tell him why is he complementing other women and not me because then he'll know I know his other email and I'll never catch him. But the thing that you have to remember about the condom is that you must use it properly. Wait, did you know that As much as he enjoyed sex, he didn't need or want it as often as I did. Ultimately, staying in your marriage is your choice and might mean having to accept you cannot change your husband.